Domestic abuse is an incredibly serious issue that affects countless people and families across the globe. It’s deeply distressing and traumatizing for the people who experience it, but since it comes in various forms, it can often be hard to pin down– leaving victims trapped in a cycle of fear and control.

At Digby Law Firm, we take this issue to heart. We’re committed to raising awareness about domestic abuse– which means helping those who are affected to seek the legal support and protection they need. 

If you suspect that you or a loved one might be dealing with a domestic abuse situation, it’s helpful to be aware of different types of domestic abuse in order to gain some insight into recognizing the signs– and seeking help.

Physical abuse

Physical abuse is generally what people associate with domestic abuse. For that reason, it’s perhaps the most recognizable form of domestic abuse– it involves the use of force to cause bodily harm.

This might include hitting, slapping, kicking, strangling, or any other form of physical harm that leaves injuries, visible or hidden. Even if there are no scars or bruises present, victims of physical domestic abuse are in a dangerous and traumatizing position.

Emotional and psychological abuse

In sharp contrast to physical abuse, emotional abuse can be much more difficult to identify– while being equally damaging and traumatizing to victims.

Emotional abuse entails behaviors that manipulate, demean, and undermine a person’s self-esteem and confidence.

This can manifest as constant criticism, humiliation, and name-calling. An abuser might also isolate the victim from friends and family, creating an environment where the victim is dependent on them but also subject to fear and intimidation.

Psychological abuse aims to erode a victim’s well-being by using manipulation, gaslighting, and mind games in order to distort and control a victim’s thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. This type of abuse can lead to anxiety, depression, and a distorted sense of reality and perception of self.

Financial abuse

Perpetrators of financial abuse are utilizing a subtler, but incredibly harmful, form of control. They might limit their partner’s access to financial resources by withholding money, controlling finances without the victim’s consent, or preventing them from working and obtaining their own income.

This type of abuse works to isolate the victim, leaving them economically dependent and making it extremely challenging to leave the abusive relationship.

Sexual abuse

This type of abuse involves any non-consensual sexual activity forced upon or coerced from a partner. This might include rape or coercion toward unwanted sexual acts– essentially, any form of sexual contact that the victim has not consented to.

Victims of sexual abuse may feel a sense of shame and confusion, making it difficult to accept that they’ve experienced this abuse. In a domestic abuse situation, they may feel like they’re obligated as a partner to engage in sexual contact, though this could not be further from the truth.

Technological or digital abuse

Within the past several decades, the rise of technology has become a concerning factor in abusive situations. This involves using technology like apps and tracking devices to control, monitor, harass, or threaten a partner.

Perpetrators may track their partner’s online activities, send abusive messages, or use social media to humiliate or intimidate their partner.

Seeking help

If you or someone you know is experiencing any form of domestic abuse, it’s essential to seek help. Remember that you are not alone, and there are resources in place to support you. These resources include local law enforcement if you’re in immediate danger, domestic violence helplines and shelters, and legal support.

At Digby Law Firm, we fight to protect our clients. If you’re in an abusive situation, we’re prepared to fight for your rights and your safety. Please give us a call or reach out to schedule a consultation today.